• How My ‘Sleep Divorce’ Has Kept My Marriage Strong

    How My ‘Sleep Divorce’ Has Kept My Marriage Strong

    I don’t sleep with my husband.   We have tried for a few years to survive in the same bed at night to no avail.  We just can’t make that part of our relationship work.  We have what now seems to be termed a “Sleep Divorce”.  In fact, aside from separate beds, we have separate Read more

  • “I Hate You, Mommy!”

    “I Hate You, Mommy!”

    ​I would have to say it was around age three when Sophia first yelled at me that she hated me.  Being so young, she had not learned just how hurtful the word “hate” could be.  I know a lot of women who have gotten upset, practically in tears, when their young toddler spews forth, “I Read more

  • Finding My Purpose In Life…

    Finding My Purpose In Life…

    For as long as I could remember, I always wanted to be a mother.  I was drawn to my friends’ younger siblings.  I loved to coo at babies I saw.  I even transformed the bottom of my tiny closet into a “crib” for my two baby dolls.  I couldn’t wait to feel that love, a Read more

  • I Had A Son…

    I Had A Son…

    I had a son. When I met him, he was barely 2 1/2 years old with an adjusted age of about eighteen months.  All I saw were his deep dark sienna eyes and his messy brown-black hair. I had a son. He was all mine from the first day I saw him anxious to give Read more

  • “When Will You Be Done?!”

    “When Will You Be Done?!”

    I’m sitting in silence rocking slightly back and forth.  I’ve been threatened and my survival instincts are kicking in.  Nowhere to run, nowhere to hide.  I am stuck… in my cubicle at work.  My stomach is repulsed by food and if I didn’t force myself not to, I would vomit anything that was in it. Read more

  • That One Relative…

    That One Relative…

    We all have that one relative, that one person we are required to love because they are family.  The one who invites themselves over without an invitation.  The one that hoards leftovers to take home without being offered.  And, we deal with them.  We put up with them because they are related to us and Read more